Why Success Hinges on Selective Association

+ 4 Ways To Surround Yourself With High Performers & Detach From The Average

Ryan Fahey
7 min readFeb 11, 2020

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Choose wisely.

This is advice you probably heard from your parents or a TV show at some point in your life.

However, what if I told you your response to this statement meant the difference between being extremely successful and being a third of what you really want to be in life. Would you take the advice of “choose wisely” a little more seriously?

We live in a dis-eased society that tends to tell us to love everyone, be more social and have a strong sense of community. Don’t get me wrong — I am all for a strong sense of community and social life. But, it's who we choose to socialize with that matters the most throughout our life.

If we spend our time with top performers, we will become top performers.

If we spend time with ‘average’ performers, we will continue to be average versions of ourselves.

Just take a moment and think about this. Do you really want to become and stay an average version of yourself? Or would you like to become the person you were always meant to be? It would be a complete disservice to your future self to become old and know you could have done more with the…

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Ryan Fahey

Amazon Best-Selling Author | Consultant | Speaker | X: @Wellnessrf | Latest book — https://www.faheyconsulting.org/books